He said: "I saw an introduction in online games: a primary school student is often teased by his classmates and even bullied by violence because of his appearance." He came to the internet for help, but someone made an interesting picture with his photo. At this time, he directly changed from campus violence in reality to cyber violence. "
I said, "What do you want to say?"
He went on to say: "when I saw this, many people laughed, but I couldn't laugh." I am sad. Mom, think about it. If you are ordinary and ugly, but others use your photos to do funny things on the Internet, won't your heart be sad and feel inferior, resulting in a series of problems? " I think someone said a lot, and everyone owes this student an apology ... "
Then I said, "I can't give you a reply right away, because what you saw in the game, I don't know if it is true or not." Maybe someone else is speculating, so I need to know first ... "
When I searched online for what my son said, I kept thinking, "My son is very kind, really good."
"Why does he deserve sympathy and he will be sad? Because he has experienced it, and because he doesn't study very well, his classmates often make fun of him. I still remember my son telling me to change schools when he was in the second grade. I didn't agree, but I patiently enlightened him and told him that people have five fingers and have strong and weak abilities. He made fun of your study, so you asked him about his accomplishment. As long as you remember that mom and dad love you forever, if you encounter school violence, you should tell mom and dad at the first time that we will not let anyone bully you, but you are not allowed to bully others because you are a child with faith. "
It is precisely because children have experienced and seen similar things that they will touch their wounds and hope that others will be loved, so parents' education is particularly important at this time.
Fortunately, my son lives in a first-tier city, and he is quite capable of getting along with others, and he always says: The teacher says our class and our school are a big family.
I learned what my son said online, but I saw all kinds of campus violence and bullying.
I still remember many movies about school violence, such as Earthworms, Don't cry Mom, Sad River, Melting Pot and so on. Every movie makes people feel sad.
Search the news and you will see that many primary school students are experiencing …, Zhejiang primary school students are imprisoned by four classmates with cigarette butts, Beijing students eat feces, Yongxin Nine girls beat a girl, and so on. Every incident is scary.
Think of a famous saying: people start evil thoughts from caution.
Some ordinary people say: that's because the treatment is not good …
It is said that for rebellious teenagers with immature minds, violence may be the solution to everything, but isn't this the reason behind the education of Origin and Death?
In the process of children's growth, they are overindulged by their families, which leads to some psychological problems such as paranoia and lack of empathy.
How to solve campus violence?
1 Pay attention to children's family education, and don't bully children.
Love children and stay away from violent games, violent cartoons and TV dramas. Don't indulge in the internet.
3 Enhance children's physique and learn to protect themselves.
4. Give children more family care and pay attention to communication and exchanges with children. Especially children from single-parent families.
Schools often educate students on legal knowledge related to juvenile protection.
6. Strengthen the psychological knowledge education and psychological skills training of young students, and improve their experience and ability in dealing with the world.
Every child is the kindest and purest when he first arrives. Because in their eyes, the world is beautiful and warm, with a faint fragrance, which is the taste of love.
Campus is the place where we increase our knowledge and receive education. Teenagers living together should help each other, understand each other and tolerate each other.
Only a three-pronged approach of society, family and school can effectively stop campus violence.